Our Hotwives

Just had a nice, normal, routine night with N. Started with a walk, but it was too hot and she was pretty miserable so they made it a short walk. Then she showered up and had a nice normal night and I made some good dinner. My wife has gotten pretty comfortable with the cameras and put on a pretty good show for me last night, winking at the camera while sucking N's cock, having nice little "sampler platter" of positions with pretty good angles for me. She was obviously having a bit of fun with it, which is FANTASTIC. I love that she's gotten so comfortable with that.

We're getting pretty excited about our 2 week cruise in a couple weeks. Unfortunately, it's a pretty small ship and a long cruise, so I give it a 98% chance that there will no hotwife stuff on the ship, which is unfortunate. But we'll plan a lifestyle cruise one of these years. It'll be a great vacation though. Sadly that means no N for a few weeks either. My wife will begging for it, which will be great to see. Build some anticipation. But she's still got a couple weeks until then. Hopefully she gets enough to tide her over.

Neither of us have heard anything from her brothers about last weeks escapade. I doubt we will but maybe the next time we're all together, who knows. At least that fear is out of the way now for her lol.

Great updates, would it be possible to get some non-revealing pics of what N and your wife look like together?
As I have been follwing your story for some time, do you ever step back and think about what she was like sexually before hotwifing and now? How has she changed?

CuriousHusband91941 wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 06, 2024 10:02 pm

Great updates, would it be possible to get some non-revealing pics of what N and your wife look like together?
As I have been follwing your story for some time, do you ever step back and think about what she was like sexually before hotwifing and now? How has she changed?

Going on vacation next week and should be taking quite a few photos of her, some of which will likely be sharable, but not of N and her together. Should they decide to take some photos together sometime, maybe, but so far they haven't taken any. My wife isn't big on photos without a reason.

I often think about our relationship, both now and before hotwifing, and compare them. Mostly just because of how much better we are now. Before, she had a pretty low sex drive. It always seemed like I had to ask for sex all the time and she'd comply once or twice a week or so, mostly reluctantly, sometimes willingly, but she rarely ever seemed enthusiastic or happy about it. Now, she very much looks forward to her hotwife night, both for sex with N and for reclamation sex with me. She's very enthusiastic about that night every week and looks forward to it. We still usually have sex a couple days before that as well, and while she doesn't usually seem overly enthusiastic about that night very often, she definitely doesn't seem as inconvenienced by it any more or come up with many excuses why she doesn't want to. It seems like more of something she wants to do for me at the very least.

Outside of the bedroom, she is a lot more affectionate than before. And there is a definite change in atmosphere, where I can tell she's more comfortable and not acting as shy, or secretive, I guess. I think before, she felt guilty about wanting to sleep with other men, fantasizing about that kind of stuff, maybe thinking about what life could have been like maybe if she made different choices, etc? And now she doesn't have those regrets about life, or any secrets or guilt, and I think it just makes her happier, just as it does me. At least I think so. What I do know is we say quite often to each other how happy we are with our lives and with each other, which we didn't say near as often before.

Tonight was the last hotwife night until after our vacation. So, 3 cold turkey weeks without fucking each other. Of course me and my wife will still be having sex, probably more than usual, but I am curious to see just how bad they are missing fucking each other. It should be at least a little amusing for me to see how horny they get for each other. And the reunion should be super hot. Regardless, we're excited for a fun and relaxing vacation.

My wife was super excited for this week's hotwifing night. It was basically just going to be a normal routine night, but I think that she just knew that she wasn't going to get it for a few weeks, and that made her want it more. She did buy him a vibrating cock ring that she was excited to try with him though. They had been flirting the other day and he was really wanting to wear the dog collar she got him weeks back that I guess really gets him going. She enjoys using that on him too. She said she wanted to try the cock ring to hopefully make him last a bit longer before cumming. I think he did last a little longer, but not that much more. But she really got loud when he was fucking her though. And prior to her putting it on him she got on her knees and sucked his cock and made him fuck her throat again. Which was beautiful. She rode him at first and was really loud like I said, then he fucked her doggy style and came inside her. He didn't pull her hair during doggy, which was a missed opportunity for him as she would have loved that, but oh well. Afterwords he laid on the bed and she laid down next to him with her head on his chest looking at the camera. I loved watching her beautiful, smiling, face as she rubbed and stroked his cock and balls as he laid there while looking at the camera and smiling. But they decided to return to their TV show and more margaritas. They're still in bed and will have sex again in the morning before I get to reclaim her. But so far she's had a very good night.

I bought a couple "sexy" underwear outfits for me to wear for her on our cruise as well as a really sexy school girl outfit for her to wear for me. She's definitely more excited when N wears stuff like that for her, but she says she can't wait to see me wear them. She also got very horny about a toy she bought for the cruise ship, which was something I suggested a year or so back that she wasn't so keen on at that time. Basically a remote control toy she'll wear under her panties and I'll have the controller to use on her during dinner at the main dining room on the ship. She's really excited for that one. I teased her saying maybe I'd hand the controller to the waiter, which she protested to... but I'll still tease her a bit more with that idea I think depending on what he looks like. And she's of course looking forward to having sex on the balcony a couple times. I still hope we'll find some single or swinger guy on board but I doubt it, and I doubt my wife will try to look too hard.

Also, my wife went and spent the day with her mom the other day. Apparently my wife's brother did tell her mom that my wife was at that concert "with some guy" but didn't tell her that they were making out. But her mom did ask her about if it was true and wanted more information, which all my wife said was "yep" and dropped it lol. So that isn't going to satisfy her mom's curiosity about that at all. So I expect that drama is going to continue to build for a while before she's forced to tell people what's going on.

And on that note, I'll respond in a couple weeks. I'm not about to pay for wifi on a cruise ship, with this being the closest thing to social media either of us use.

Have a wonderful relaxing vacay you two…

Pufferfish wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 18, 2024 11:40 pm

CuriousHusband91941 wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 06, 2024 10:02 pm

Great updates, would it be possible to get some non-revealing pics of what N and your wife look like together?
As I have been follwing your story for some time, do you ever step back and think about what she was like sexually before hotwifing and now? How has she changed?

Going on vacation next week and should be taking quite a few photos of her, some of which will likely be sharable, but not of N and her together. Should they decide to take some photos together sometime, maybe, but so far they haven't taken any. My wife isn't big on photos without a reason.

I often think about our relationship, both now and before hotwifing, and compare them. Mostly just because of how much better we are now. Before, she had a pretty low sex drive. It always seemed like I had to ask for sex all the time and she'd comply once or twice a week or so, mostly reluctantly, sometimes willingly, but she rarely ever seemed enthusiastic or happy about it. Now, she very much looks forward to her hotwife night, both for sex with N and for reclamation sex with me. She's very enthusiastic about that night every week and looks forward to it. We still usually have sex a couple days before that as well, and while she doesn't usually seem overly enthusiastic about that night very often, she definitely doesn't seem as inconvenienced by it any more or come up with many excuses why she doesn't want to. It seems like more of something she wants to do for me at the very least.

Outside of the bedroom, she is a lot more affectionate than before. And there is a definite change in atmosphere, where I can tell she's more comfortable and not acting as shy, or secretive, I guess. I think before, she felt guilty about wanting to sleep with other men, fantasizing about that kind of stuff, maybe thinking about what life could have been like maybe if she made different choices, etc? And now she doesn't have those regrets about life, or any secrets or guilt, and I think it just makes her happier, just as it does me. At least I think so. What I do know is we say quite often to each other how happy we are with our lives and with each other, which we didn't say near as often before.

That’s great, man.

Have a great trip!

How was the cruise?

The cruise was great. She made no attempt on the ship to meet any single guys, she said she thought it would be weird if things didn't go well to continue seeing him on the ship so she didn't want to. So we just enjoyed a very loving vanilla cruise, just the 2 of us. She let me take a few photos of her that I will share in my photo thread. We did catch colds, but not until the very last day of the cruise, so we were sick for a few days once we got home as well, which she did call into work for, but are both feeling pretty good now. She's still a little bit sick, but almost completely over it, but didn't want to cancel plans with N tonight. He was aware and wanted to come over anyway, I dropped them both off at a concert and I'll pick them up in a few hours. She's been looking forward to, and talking about N's dick, quite a bit for a few days now, she's dripping wet for it. She's already told both of us that she's fucking him at least twice tonight, one as soon as they get back, then we're watching a movie and they are going to go fuck again before sleeping, and then in the morning too. It's good to be home.

Glad to hear the cruise was wonderful. Good times with N tonight and hopefully we hear more about how it goes.

Had a couple of normal weeks with N. The one last week was pretty disappointing for her though as he didn't last very long and only a couple times. And today he called things off because he met a girl at a Halloween party and started dating. So, a bit disappointing and a little sad, but she took it pretty well. She'll have to start from scratch and hopefully find a new guy. So it'll be pretty quiet around here in the meantime.

That's too bad. N was working out well for you two, but I guess these things happen. The good news is that when she finds someone new she'll be full of that NRE.

KevKev wrote: ↑

Fri Nov 15, 2024 7:39 am

That's too bad. N was working out well for you two, but I guess these things happen. The good news is that when she finds someone new she'll be full of that NRE.

Yeah. Initially she took it all rather well. She said she had actually been expecting this for a little while. But the last couple days she's been pretty emotional and even cried herself to sleep last night. But I understand, I know she doesn't love him like she loves me, but he's been a big part of her life for about 2 years now. So there's definitely some feelings there. But she did reactivate and update her dating profile. She said she needs someone new to think about. So hopefully she begins to chat with some new guys soon and begins to enjoy this again.

She blames the horrible Hawaii Island gods. She was warned by a co-worker not to take anything from the beaches of Hawaii but she took some rocks anyway. We were sick for over a month (and still coughing a little bit) and then this, she says the Island gods cursed us and she threw the rocks into a drainage ditch behind the house.

Maybe the Island Gods did y’all a favour by giving her a chance with someone new

I suppose that if you are in a relationship, even if it's just sex, that you'll eventually develop some feelings towards that person. Did that worry you at all? That maybe she'd run off with him?

Did anything ever come about from the brother seeing her?

N is significantly younger than her, right? I wonder if that adds to their awkwardness/confusion when they saw them together.

KevKev wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 18, 2024 4:51 am

I suppose that if you are in a relationship, even if it's just sex, that you'll eventually develop some feelings towards that person. Did that worry you at all? That maybe she'd run off with him?

If I may, It is extremely common for wives to not only develop, but to have a love for their FB, FWB, and/or boyfriend. If you are the husband you should be, it very rarely becomes a problem.
NRE exists and should be known by the husband and the wife, once understood it's not a problem. You have to ask yourself, do I have the kind of marriage that just sex would put my marriage at risk? Some do. If you do, work on that first.
IMHO, if my wife left me for someone else, I wasn't doing my job and I didn't really have her anyway.

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 23, 2024 6:07 pm

KevKev wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 18, 2024 4:51 am

I suppose that if you are in a relationship, even if it's just sex, that you'll eventually develop some feelings towards that person. Did that worry you at all? That maybe she'd run off with him?

If I may, It is extremely common for wives to not only develop, but to have a love for their FB, FWB, and/or boyfriend. If you are the husband you should be, it very rarely becomes a problem.
NRE exists and should be known by the husband and the wife, once understood it's not a problem. You have to ask yourself, do I have the kind of marriage that just sex would put my marriage at risk? Some do. If you do, work on that first.
IMHO, if my wife left me for someone else, I wasn't doing my job and I didn't really have her anyway.

It is with much respect that I say Angela and Brent might disagree with you. (re; “Angela plays” thread)

JeffBingham wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 24, 2024 6:20 am

It is with much respect that I say Angela and Brent might disagree with you. (re; “Angela plays” thread)

IMHO the boundaries and the extent of emotional involvement are specific to each couple in this LS and subject to constant re-evaluation.

KevKev wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 18, 2024 4:51 am

I suppose that if you are in a relationship, even if it's just sex, that you'll eventually develop some feelings towards that person. Did that worry you at all? That maybe she'd run off with him?

While I disagree with Her number 1 about there just being little risk, I understand his position. For my position, I understand that there are different types of love. You love your dog, your parents, your friends, your wife, etc. None of them are equal and all are different types of love. So yes, I do worry about her developing the "wrong" kind of feelings for him, but it's not a significant worry. I don't worry too much because I understand she'll love him as a friend and "a lover". I would have worried a few years ago, because she didn't have the same understanding about that issue that she now has. But now, I don't worry so much because I believe she would tell me if things were becoming too complicated and call things off with him before they spiraled out of control. Because even if she did develop those wrong feelings, she would still have a completely different love for me. The love she has for me has developed over almost half of her life, not only am I her husband, but her best friend. We have financial obligations together, she would have to explain things to her family, etc. It's just not a feasible worry for me. It exists, but it's minor.

ajgarcia69 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 23, 2024 1:19 pm

Did anything ever come about from the brother seeing her?

N is significantly younger than her, right? I wonder if that adds to their awkwardness/confusion when they saw them together.

Not really, at least not yet. I still haven't seen or talked to the brothers yet, so there might be a conversation incoming, but I kind of doubt it. And yeah, he's about 10 years younger than her, so they might have noticed and thought it unusual.

Things have been developing over the last couple weeks. Firstly we got a new lap dog, he's young but not a puppy. We didn't get him because she was sad or anything, but he's certainly helped her feel better and been a great addition. Secondly, she's been pretty active on dating sites and things have been getting her excited.

The first guy she liked I didn't really like much. He seemed rather pushy on trying to video chat and get pictures and stuff. They had a date last week set for today, but a couple days ago he up and ghosted her and she said I was right that he was just a flaky picture collector and not a serious guy. She was also talking to a cop who clearly had some issues revolving around rebounding from a failed relationship. But he was a really hot scenario for her thinking about his uniform and handcuffs and stuff. Plus he was ripped, which she loved. They had a date set up for next week, but unfortunately he cancelled and called things off as well a couple days ago.

Then yesterday she started talking to 2 other guys. One is only 26, like N was last year I think, and fit, and he's got her pretty hot and bothered. He's sent a few dick pics and she's got a date with him next week. And the other guy I don't know much about except for he's a bit more on the dominant side supposedly. The 2 of them have been talking about sex a lot, he's also sent some dick pics and they made a date for today. I just dropped her off and hopefully that goes well. Wont be any sex today, but she might suck his dick if it goes well.

Edit: She didn't like that guy very much. Hopefully the younger guy is better.

JeffBingham wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 24, 2024 6:20 am

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 23, 2024 6:07 pm

KevKev wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 18, 2024 4:51 am

I suppose that if you are in a relationship, even if it's just sex, that you'll eventually develop some feelings towards that person. Did that worry you at all? That maybe she'd run off with him?

If I may, It is extremely common for wives to not only develop, but to have a love for their FB, FWB, and/or boyfriend. If you are the husband you should be, it very rarely becomes a problem.
NRE exists and should be known by the husband and the wife, once understood it's not a problem. You have to ask yourself, do I have the kind of marriage that just sex would put my marriage at risk? Some do. If you do, work on that first.
IMHO, if my wife left me for someone else, I wasn't doing my job and I didn't really have her anyway.

It is with much respect that I say Angela and Brent might disagree with you. (re; “Angela plays” thread)

Hey Jeff.
You and I both know there exceptions to anything, and even those that post fanasty as truth.

How did everything go with the younger guy?

Things have been going, but not necessarily good or bad, but going. The younger guy flaked out. Then my wife began talking to a couple more guys. Another one of them flaked out. She met up with Sir again, who she met a couple times before a year or so ago but just sucked his dick in his truck and nothing else. They met for coffee again, and once again she sucked his dick in his truck. Don't know why she feels the need to suck his dick every time, but he asks her every time, and like a good girl I guess she does what she's asked. But she doesn't want to do anything more with him. She went on another couple dates. One she really liked but he doesn't drive I guess, so that's a deal breaker. She doesn't want to pick him up and drop him off like a soccer mom. She started talking with this other guy who looks like a 9 or 10 out of 10, except covered in tattoos which she's not super keen on. He sent a couple full nude pics and she liked what she saw besides that. She's meeting with him for coffee right now, but he was an hour late, which isn't boding well for his prospects, he'll really have to make it up to her at this point.

Other than that, my wife has just been a powerhouse when talking with and meeting new guys, but unfortunately none have really worked out well yet. But the quest continues.

Edit: Nope, he was a total dud and a waste of time. Just looking for a quickie while cheating on his wife.

You're lucky she's putting herself out there, looking for guys. My wife seems to have lost her desire lately, so count your blessings.
Stay positive. It sounds like you guys have it all going well.