Our Hotwives

I pop into and out of this forum as I find this lifestyle quite frankly fascinating.The advice and tips that posters offer each other always seems to be spot on and there are no particular recriminations.
The question I'm asking is what was that moment that you actually both realised that this lifestyle is for you?
That truly eye opening, nerves tingling moment.

Long ago when she was getting ready for her first date with a boyfriend, I was anxious and told her maybe it needed to be put on hold for a day or so. She replied, " Baby, you want this, and it's too late to undo the date. You'll always be my number 1 ".
In a bit, I knew she was right. After all, she told me I was "Her number 1".
There comes a time you either believe her or you don't.

My wife was going away on a business trip during which she would be spending considerable time with a close male colleague. As she was leaving, she said to me "I'm prepared to let things happen."

Our first time was on a cruise ship.

We had gone in a cruise with a bunch of friends. One night we were up late drinking and hanging out at the club. A friend of mine confided in me that he thought my wife was incredibly sexy. He apologized if he had crossed a line but said I was a lucky man. I was his friend for a few years at this point and I had heard about his prowess. I told my wife about our conversation.

A couome hours later we were fooling around in our cabin and it got hot and heavy. And as usual when I get over excited I came in a few minutes. I apologized and tried to rally for another round. Didn’t have much luck. She had made a quick joke. “I bet Tony could rally for me ”
In that moment I knew she was atleast thinking about it.

Fast forward 3 nights later………
She wasn’t wrong, and Tony certainly did rally. I was watching by wife get fucked all night. He came on her tits, in her mouth and creampied her to finish the marathon off.

The first positive response during sexy pillowtalk.
The swish of your credit card when you're both purchasing sexy lingerie for your adventure.
The click of high heels when she's ready to leave for a date.
There are so many delicious sensory defining moments.

Not my partner. But I kissed another guy, then went back and had a hot make out session with my bf. It was overwhelmingly exciting. Not sure how far I will go with this. But I am excited to try it.

When I proposed to my then girlfriend, she told me she'd only marry me if I agreed to us having an open marriage. She admitted that she had a girlfriend and knew she'd want to be able to have sex with a woman in the future. She also admitted she'd cheated on her previous boyfriends and had swapped on a few occasions. I was a virgin and had only had a few blowjobs and handjobs from her but she told me that I could also go with other women and that she'd like me to go with her elder sister.
I never thought that would happen but within a couple of months her sister and I ended up masturbating in front of each other and when I admitted it to my fiancée she said we should have gone further.
The following weekend I woke up to find her sister getting into bed with me and eventually she ended up diving down the bed in time to swallow my cum after she'd bought me close with her hand. We kissed and she ended up bringing herself off on me and bringing me to the brink of my orgasm. As I stated cumming , she pushed down against my penis and it slipped into her and I finished my orgasm inside her. When I admitted this to my fiancée she became turned on and teased me by saying her sister and I had lost our virginity to each other.
Soon after that she was going to her work's Christmas party and a colleague she'd long had a crush on was going to give her a lift. I'd told her that I hoped they'd do something together but as I was living a long way from her, it'd be a while before I'd find out.
On the night of the party I could only imagine what they'd be doing in his car and the following morning I wrote to her, begging to hear the details.
She got my letter a couple of days later and wrote to tell me that not only did she fuck him in his car after the party but she'd just sucked him off under his desk at work as they'd been alone in the office for the last hour.
When I read the letter and found that I was really turned on I knew that we'd be having a lot of fun in the future.

We went to a swingers club for a few months without ever coming close to doing anything with another couple. One night a much older man started hitting on Marie. I honestly thought the old guy was wasting his time flirting with my wife. Marie definitely wasn’t into guys old enough to be her dad. While my wife and the husband was dancing the man’s wife asked if we would go back to their hotel suite. I told her I was up to my wife. I thought I would have a good laugh when I tell Marie what the old lady asked me.

I expected my wife to say “HELL NO” when I asked if she wanted to go other hotel suite. So, I was floored when she said “yes”. I said “you know what this means right?” “We’re not going to their hotel room to play checkers” She just stared into my eyes for awhile and said “I know what they want…let’s go”.

The drive to their hotel room seemed like the longest drive of my life. My heart and mind was racing. I kept asking Marie if she’s sure she wanted to do this. Marie knew I always wanted to watch her with another man. That night I finally got my wish. The old man was excellent in bed. It was the first time I got to see another man make her have one of her over the top body shaking orgasm. It was awesome and one of the best nights of our lives. A few years later we got out of swinging. Solely because I just want my wife to be a HW. That’s it!!!

For us, I believe it was on our second date that we had the conversation about non-monogamy in all of its forms. That was followed by many conversations over the next few dates, conversations that continue to this day and will probably never stop. But the decision to be non-monogamous was made in the first 10 minutes of that first conversation on our second date. The rest was mostly about the mechanics of it all.

We got into this lifestyle by accident. We had both been married before. We used to do things to turn each other on, e.g. her wearing a skirt but no panties, going to a nude beach, watching a porno' movie, sharing stories of turn-ons from our past lives, etc. One time we thought a sensuous massage would be fun, we investigated, but none of the massage parlors would take female clients. One such place suggested we try a local adult paper and look for a guy who gave bodyrubs to women. We tried it, found a guy we both felt comfortable with, and made a date.

He was respectful, considerate, and not at all pushy and we both immediately liked and felt comfortable with him. The first visit started "normally" enough - she undressed privately and was on her tummy under a towel. The towel disappeared about 15 minutes in. Soon she was on her back, full frontal naked. I had never seen her naked in front of another person so close. A few minutes later, she was tugging at his clothes.

That visit ended with her having a happy ending courtesy of his hands. The second visit started with them both being naked and ended with mutual oral. The third visit ended in intercourse. From that point on we were both hooked.

I knew these stories and moments would be spicy.

I knew these stories and moments would be spicy.

It was different for each of us. I became aware in my teens I would marry a woman who fucked other men. I was a bit of a socially awkward nerd in high school. I knew girls but I was friend zoned by all of them.

Fortunately for me, I had a couple of friends who were popular with the girls. Each of them at different times were dating girls who didn't mind being shared with their friends.

I wound up being tail end Charlie at 2 different gang bangs. There were plenty of hot fantasies about girls who would fuck more than one guy at a time. To find out there really were girls like that was a shock.

Both times, it fell to me to be last. Watching the girls fucking 4 guys ahead of me was heaven. When it was finally my turn I was in love. Those girls seemed like magical beings to me.

After those two incidents, I didn't have sex again for 2 years. Eventually some of the awkwardness went away and I dated but the images of those 2 girls were burned into my brain. There was just a knowledge that eventually, there would be a woman like that in my life.

For my wife it was different. We were just dating when I presented the idea of her with other men. She was surprised for sure but she didn't send me packing. We discussed it a lot. From the first talk, she was curious and when we started hugging and kissing while talking about it, we wound up having extremely intense sex.

A few weeks after the first talk, we had our first mfm. The first time she stripped in front of another man, she orgasmed just seeing how turned on he was. It was an evening of incredible sex for the 3 of us. After it was over, we drove back to her folks place. She didn't say much all the way back.

My mind was running wild imagining that she had thought it over and was upset. When I parked, she pulled me close and kissed me. She told me she hoped I was sure this was the kind of relationship I wanted for us. My answer was yes. She said good because I'm going to be doing this for a long time.

It was when she walked out the door, on her way to her first date, That I knew that all of our conversations had led to this! it was actually about to happen. watching and helping her prepare for it, was mind-blowing! and the hour after she returned home, was even better!

We had been dating a while and I was nervous about telling her what I wanted - previous partners didn't react well at all. She immediately got super horny about it and started texting some random guys she used to talk to.

We had talked about a MFM threesome for a bit and I had written a F4M ad for her on CL and one night she went through the responses after I was asleep. She got so horny from all these men wanting her that she needed a release. She came to bed, slid my shorts off and started getting me hard. She climbed on top and rode me hard till she had an explosive orgasm and collapsed onto my chest. She then said, “wow good luck getting back to sleep!”, rolled over and passed out. It was a bit longer yet for her to become a hotwife but that’s when we knew it could happen.

When I first met my now wife, I was her "side piece." She was in a long term relationship with her bf. This went on for about 4 or , months before she broke up with him for me. During that time there were nights I was told not to text or call her, cause she would be with him. I knew she was still fucking him and the thought of it drove me wild. When she finally broke it off with him I told her that knowing she was still fucking him made me incredibly hot...and soon after we were in the lifestyle looking for men to fuck her

My wife told me that, while on a business trip, she had ended up in her hotel room with a work colleague who kissed her. It didn't go further, but she admitted she liked it. I think that planted the seed, because several weeks later she came to me and told me she wanted to date other men. She was in her mid-40s at the time, and she said she didn't want to go through the rest of her life without having sex with other men. We agreed she could start dating, and if she was attracted enough, she would have sex with the guy. It took several months for it to actually happen.

That door for us opened so imperceptibly that I can't pinpoint any single moment as a catalyst. There is a huge backstreet to that defining moment if that's possible for me. But do remember one April day in our Township, on a village green, with our then young daughter in tow. The Texas Gulf Coast is tropical enough to start a person feeling tropical in April. So in that flowery Springtime flush, she announced she was going to search online for someone to date. And in that same day, lo and behold our neighbor who was going through a divorce should arrive in that village green. It was obvious my wife wanted to have sex with him. We made him our fantasy during sex for the next 2 months. In July, in theTennessee Smokies, we decided that I would seduce him to the idea of letting him have sex with my wife. When she gave me the green light to set it up for her, I knew it would happen.

Started with a girlfriends birthday bar hopping night. Husband nudged me to dress sexier than I normally would. Flirted. Had fun.
Repeated - only dressing even sexier.

Eventually led to us picking guys from dating sites for a simple "dress sexy", meet a guy and flirt - dates. Super fun. Hot sex when I got home.

We knew we were getting close to "crossing the rubicon".

One date - the guy wasn't super fit, or hot, but he was charming, funny and I felt totally comfortable with him.

Our rules had evolved from "call if you might take it further" into "don't call until you're on the way home". This was to prevent us talking ourselves OUT of doing it.

Guy asked me back to his place. I turned off my phone. A few minutes later I'm having a huge orgasm on his mouth, followed by a massive orgasm with his when he came in me. Amazing adventure.
I still fuck this same guy at least once a year when he visits our town for the same convention I met him during.

A million fails, misteps, false starts, and silliness along the way but its funny how those just fall away over time. Its the hot nights that remain.

When be invited a buddy to our house and I didn’t pick up on it at all. However when he left hubby told him I give the best blow jobs and he should have one from me. So I asked a ton of questions, he said he wanted to share me with other men and watch and join in. So I said ok if I get to pick the man, so we made a deal and 30 yrs we have been in it! 🥰

My wife an me were long distance for about a year.

One night I send her two links to stories playing out here, and mentioned I kind liked this "hot wife" idea.
When we talked later she laughed and flat out told me "I can do that!"

So that is when I knew I was going to marry myself a hotwife.

The bad boy next door decided he didn't like my beer and strongly suggested I go into town and get his beloved Coors while he would keep Sonja company

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Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Dec 15, 2024 6:38 pm

When be invited a buddy to our house and I didn’t pick up on it at all. However when he left hubby told him I give the best blow jobs and he should have one from me. So I asked a ton of questions, he said he wanted to share me with other men and watch and join in. So I said ok if I get to pick the man, so we made a deal and 30 yrs we have been in it! 🥰

So did that buddy ever get picked? Or was he just the showcase with the warehouse at a different place?